Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Fishing and Family Bonding

One most enjoyable activities anyone can practice is fishing. This can be freshwater fishing, on a stream, a river, trolling on a lake or saltwater fishing. You are in touch with nature and away from urban and city life. Fishing provides an opportunity to share this with your children.

Many anglers were lucky enough to start their fishing with their father. The experience of sharing goes both ways - dad to child and child to dad. From the fathers point of view it provides an opportunity not only to share and be with your son or daughter but also a special time to observe and get to know the way he or she acts, the way the child responds and in many ways his or her personality.

All parents should know their children - at the same time build up trust and security a good parent to child relationship should develop. At normal healthy child that grows up in a family environment that promotes values, respect and love of life will intuitively know that fathers are unbeatable, strong and are what heroes are made from.

When you take your child with you fishing and you take the time to teach, in other words when you are patient, your son or daughter will develop a love of the outdoors, a love of fishing and perhaps even more importantly, memories that will stay with them always. These memories will always provide a feeling of the "good times'. The father figure, that sadly in this day and age is not what it should be, becomes one of the most important ingredients, if you could call it that, in the life of any person.

The fishing side of things while providing a scenario for teaching and obviously the whole art of fishing, is also an excuse for conversation, sharing, teaching and bonding. Much of what is shared provides practical examples, and therefore become second nature, of how to act in different circumstances. Patience, frugality, respect for nature and life in general, persistence and so many other values that will always stay with the child.

Above all the time together, the sharing and the conversations on all sorts of subjects are solid character building experiences. The child learns by doing and by observing. Fishing with a parent provides both of these. They say imitation is the highest form of flattery and your child will want to act like you, want to be like you and he will want to fish like you and therefore these are one of the best moments for both of you.

In the final analysis, it is also great fun and possibly you will be helping to develop you future fishing partner - say twenty years down the line. The probabilities will also be very high that he in turn will also teach his child to fish and so the cycle repeats itself, to the benefit of all.

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Dog detects Earthquake

www.oasishd.ca - A 5.0 magnitude earthquake shook Quebec and Ontario residents recently. Natural disasters can be detected by our canine friends long before we can detect it. Has your dog given you signs of impending natural disasters?



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Monday, June 28, 2010

Nature and Fun in Family Style Camping Tents

A family camping trip can be a fun time for everyone, but the time may come when the entire family will not want to be in the same room with everyone else. This probably sounds familiar as if you were at home. Well, new styles of family tents help provide a solution with separate spaces for anywhere from two to four rooms, though all are connected in one main tent. These divisions do not provide separation for noise but do provide separation enough allowing some family members to be relax in his or her "own space."

In the originally family tents, it was not uncommon to need to pass through the first one or two rooms to reach the back of the camping tent. It was basically unavoidable that the camper in the front room would be disturbed every time someone entered and exited the tent. Families with younger children can appreciate this, but the time comes when the children are older and everyone will desire entries to the tent in other locations as well.

Today, family tents can be purchased with entries in a front location as well s the back providing for more separation between campers. This also allows a space for more storage, supplies or even more people toward the center of the tent. A floor in the tent helps campers keep dry during wet an rainy weather. Campers can also have slightly more privacy when dressing in the mornings and preparing for that day's exploration or activities.

Family camping tents are a great option for families that camp often and a good investment. On the country, those families that only camp sporadically may find the price to be quite high and not worth the investment. The family camping occasionally may want to consider renting a family sized tent from a rental company or a campground which offer family tents at reasonable prices. This will be considerably lower in cost as opposed to purchasing one that may be used only a couple times and left in storage the majority of the time.

Generally, family can often comfortably fit four campers into a 12-foto by 12-foot family tent, though cooperation will be needed for the privacy aspect of camping. But, a couple nights outdoors amidst nature is a fairly inexpensive alternative to the cost of a hotel.

For years, families used the large, one-room camping tents for the entire families which may be fine while the kids are young. There is no reason to let the camping trips stop, though, after the kids grow older as many families find happens. With the large, multi-room style camping tents available today there are no excuses to stop a family camping tradition. Simply graduate the family into a larger camping tent geared toward more privacy, space and convenience for everyone.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Resilience in the Individual and in the Family System

Webster's Dictionary (1974) defines resilience as "an ability to recover from or adjust easily to change or misfortune" (p. 596). Although this definition is widely accepted, resilience may be conceptualized as being more than merely bouncing back from setbacks. Resilience may also be the ability to bounce forward in the face of an uncertain future (Walsh, 2004). Resilience has been conceptualized as the forging of strengths through adversity (Wolin & Wolin, 1993). Like the willow tree, people thrive if they have a strong, healthy root system. With branches flexible enough to bend with the storm and firm enough to weather strong winds without breaking, the willow tree can continue to grow despite being twisted into differing shapes. The willow tree may be a metaphor for the resilient individual and resilient family system. Resiliency is critical to mental health and healthy aging.

Bonanno (2004) defined adult resilience as a person's capacity to resist maladaptation in the face of risky experiences. Bonanno's individually-based definition of adult resilience assumes that resilience resides in the person, an observation supported by the list of individual attributes that covary with resilient outcomes in Bonanno's work (hardiness, self-enhancement, repressive coping, and positive emotion.). Importantly, this definition of resilience does not identify the positive outcomes that can result from adversity in the hardy individual. Despite Bonanno's (2004) narrow definition, his analysis includes an interesting finding that loss and brief traumatic experiences, despite being aversive and difficult to accept, are normatively not sufficient to overwhelm the adaptive resources of ordinary adults. Bonanno's research calls into question the research of Sameroff, Bartko, Baldwin, Baldwin, and Seifer (1998), which demonstrated in longitudinal analyses that as levels of adversity rise, and as resources fall, resilience becomes less tenable.

Rutter (1985) observed that strong self-esteem and self-efficacy make successful coping more likely, whereas a sense of helplessness increases the likelihood that one crisis will lead to another. In a similar vein, Kobasa's (1985) research findings supported his hypothesis that people with resilience possess three general traits: (1.) the belief that they can influence or control events in their lives; (2.) an ability to feel deeply committed and involved in activities in their lives; and (3.) a tendency to embrace change as an opportunity to grow and develop more fully. Thus, resilient children are more likely to have an inner locus of control (Seligman, 1990), or an optimistic belief that they can positively impact their fate.

Dugan and Coles (1989) suggest that individuals prevail over adversity more effectively if they have moral and spiritual resources. In a phenomenological study of nine subjects who had experienced such traumas as life in a concentration camp, disability, breast cancer, massive head injury, a life of violence and abuse, and loss of a child, Rose (1997) identified similar themes of resilience which emerged from individual interviews: the role of supportive others, empathy, self-care, faith, action orientation, moving on, positive outlook, and persistence. Rose identifies the foundational structure of resilience as faith, self-respect, striving, supportive others, coping, empathy, self-reliance, and moving on.

Closer scrutiny of children and families that are at risk reveals many exceptions to the "damage model" of development, which considers stress or disadvantage as predictive of dysfunction. For example, Werner and Smith (1992) conducted an extensive longitudinal study of almost a half a century of children from Kuai. The researchers found that in spite of early medical distress, poverty, school difficulties, teen pregnancy, or arrest, children were able to learn and persevere through difficulty, given adequate supports. In their analysis of how these impoverished children matured successfully, Vaillant (2002) notes that Werner and Smith emphasized, ". . . the importance of being a 'cuddly' child and of being a child who elicits predominantly positive responses from the environment and who manifests great skill at recruiting substitute parents" (p. 285). Werner and Smith point out that key turning points for most of these troubled individuals were meeting a caring friend and marrying an accepting spouse. It is also salient that Werner and Smith found that more girls than boys overcame adversity at all age levels. Walsh (2004) speculates that this finding reflects the notion that ". . . girls are raised to be both more easygoing and more relationally-oriented, whereas boys are taught to be tough and self-reliant through life. . . [and] often because of troubled family lives, competencies were built when early responsibilities were assumed for household tasks and care of younger siblings" (pp. 13-14). Werner and Smith's study is especially important in reminding clinicians that early life experiences do not necessarily guarantee significant problems in later life. Walsh (2004) suggests that their most significant finding is that resilience can be developed at any point over the course of the life cycle. Walsh extrapolates from Werner and Smith's research that ". . . unexpected events and new relationships can disrupt a negative chain and catalyze new growth" (p. 14). Favorable interactions with individuals, families and their environments have a systemic effect of moving resilience in upward spirals, and a downward spiral can be reversed at any time in life (Walsh, 2004).

Felsman and Vaillant (1987) followed the lives of 75 males living in impoverished, socially disadvantaged families. People who suffered from substance abuse, mental illness, crime and violence parented these men. Several of these men, although scarred by their childhoods, lived brave lives and became high functioning adults. Felsman and Vaillant concluded, "The events that go wrong in our lives do not forever damn us" (1987, p. 298).

Another study refuting the accuracy of the "damage model" is Kaufman and Zigler's (1987) finding that most survivors of childhood abuse do not go on to abuse their own children. Similarly, other research found that children of mentally ill parents or dysfunctional families have been able to prevail over early experiences of abuse or neglect to lead productive lives (Anthony, 1987; Cohler, 1987; Garmezy, 1987).

Werner (1995) identified clusters of protective factors that have emerged as recurrent themes in the lives of children who overcame great odds. The protective factors that were characteristic of the individual were myriad. Resilient youngsters are engaging to other people. Additionally, they excel in problem-solving skills and display effective communication skills. Problem solving skills included the ability to recruit substitute caregivers. Moreover, they have a talent or hobby valued by their elders or peers. Finally, they have faith that their own actions can make a positive difference in their lives.
From a developmental perspective, Werner (1995) emphasizes that having affectional ties that encourage trust, autonomy, and initiative enhances resilience. Members of the extended family or support systems in the community frequently provide these ties. These support systems reinforce and reward the competencies of resilient children and provide them with positive role models. Such supports may include caring neighbors, clergy, teachers, and peers.

In Vaillant's (2002) Study of Adult Development at Harvard University, arguably the longest longitudinal study on aging in the world, it is suggested that resiliency researchers who focus on risk factors and pathology are mistaken in believing that misfortune condemns disadvantaged children to bleak futures. Instead, Vaillant calls upon clinicians to count up the positive and the protective factors when conducting assessments. Vaillant cites Sir Michael Rutter (1985), who reminds clinicians, "The notion that adverse experiences lead to lasting damage to personality 'structure' has very little empirical support" (p. 598).

Vaillant (2002) identifies four protective factors in the individual's potential to age well. A future orientation, a capacity for gratitude and forgiveness, a capacity to love and to hold the other empathically, and the desire do things with people instead of to people are personal qualities identified as resiliency factors. He posits that ". . . marriage is not only important to healthy aging, it is often the cornerstone of adult resilience" (p. 291).

Furthermore, Vaillant (2002) describes resilience as being a combination of nature and nurture. Both genes and environment play crucial roles. He explains, "On one hand, our ability to feel safe enough to deploy adaptive defenses like humor and altruism is facilitated by our being among loving friends. On the other hand, our ability to appear so attractive to others that they will love us is very much dependent upon the genetic capacity that made some of us 'easy' attractive babies" (p. 285).

An essential part of resilience is ". . . the ability to find the loving and health-giving individuals within one's social matrix wherever they may be" (Vaillant, 2002, p. 286). Thus, like Werner and Smith (1992), Vaillant's research identified extended families and friendship networks as key foundations to resilience in the individual and the family system.

American culture glorifies the "rugged individual." John Wayne, the personification of masculinity and strength, has been adored by generations of Americans as a hero. However, there is an inherent danger in the myth of rugged individualism, which implies that vulnerability and emotional interdependence are weak and dysfunctional (Walsh, 2004). As Felsman and Vaillant (1987) note, "The term 'invulnerability' is antithetical to the human condition. . . In bearing witness to the resilient behavior of high-risk children everywhere, a truer effort would be to understand, in form and by degree, the shared human qualities at work" (p. 304). Avoidance of personal suffering and the glorification of stoicism are hallmarks of American culture. Such cultural attitudes are typified by the call to "move on," to "cheer up," to get over catastrophic events, to put national and global tragedies behind us, or to rebound (Walsh, 2004). Higgins (1994) notes that struggling well involves experiencing both suffering and courage, effectively processing and working through challenges from intrapersonal and interpersonal perspectives. In Higgin's study of resilient adults, it became clear that they became stronger because they were severely tested, endured suffering, and developed new strengths as a result of their trials. These adults experienced their lives more deeply and passionately. Walsh (2004) observes that over fifty per cent of the resilient individuals studied by Higgins were therapists. Egeland, B. R., Carlson, E. and Sroufe (1993) offer an alternative approach to thinking about resilience as ". . . a family of processes that scaffold successful adaptation in the context of adversity" (p. 517).

Important research conducted by Wolin and Wolin (1993) points toward the notion that although some children are born with innate resiliencies, resiliency can be modeled, taught, and increased. They emphasize that persons tend to seek healing from pain instead of holding on to bitterness. The researchers note that the resilient person draws lessons from experience instead of repeating mistakes, and that they maintain openness and spontaneity in their relationships rather than becoming rigid or bitter in interaction. Wolin and Wolin also found that resiliency in individuals is strongly correlated with humor and creativity, as well as mental and physical health. The Wolins identify seven traits of adults who survived a troubled childhood: insight (awareness of dysfunction), independence (distancing self from troubles), relationships (supportive connections with others), initiative (self/other-help actions), creativity (self-expression, transformation), humor (reframing in a less threatening way), and morality (justice and compassion rather than revenge). Traits are viewed as dynamic processes by which resilient individuals adapt to and grow through challenge, rather than static properties that automatically protect the invulnerable. These observations are correlated with empirical studies of resilient children (Baldwin, Baldwin, & Cole, 1990; Bernard, 1991; Garbarino, 1992; Masten, Best, & Garmezy, 1990; Werner & Smith, 1992) and adults (Klohnen, Vandewater, and Young, 1996, Vaillant, 2002).

Walsh (2004) asserts, "In the field of mental health, most clinical theory, training, practice, and research have been overwhelmingly deficit-focused, implicating the family in the cause or maintenance of nearly all problems in individual functioning. Under early psychoanalytic assumptions of destructive maternal bonds, the family came to be seen as a noxious influence. Even the early family systems formulations focused on dysfunctional family processes well in the mid-1980's" (p. 15).

The popularity of the Adult Children of Alcoholics Movement surged in the late twentieth century and encouraged people to blame their families for their problems. This movement tempted the individual to make excuses for his behavior in terms of his dysfunctional family history instead of looking for family strengths that might help him/her overcome challenge and become stronger. Adult Children of Alcoholics ". . . spend much of their time other-focused, and it is easy for them to become preoccupied with another group member's problem, take responsibility for it, and avoid the painful job of self-examination and taking responsibility for their own behavior" (Lawson & Lawson, 1998, p. 263).

In contrast to this damage model, the Wolins offered an alternative way to view challenging family backgrounds: a Challenge Model to build resilience, stating that ". . . the capacity for self-repair in adult children of alcoholics taught [them] that strength can emerge from adversity" (p. 15). The Wolins reflect a paradigm shift in recent years, as family systems therapists have started to focus upon a competence-based, strength-oriented approach (Barnard, 1994; Walsh, 1993, 1995a). A family resilience approach builds on recent research, empowering therapists to move away from deficit and focus upon ways that families can be challenged to grow stronger from adversity (Walsh, 2004). From the perspective of the Challenge Model, stressors can become potential springboards for increased competence, as long as the level of stress is not too high (Wolin & Wolin, 1993). Walsh notes, "The Chinese symbol for the word 'crisis' is a composite of two pictographs: the symbols for 'danger' and 'opportunity'" (p. 7). Wolin and Wolin (1993) observe that we may not wish for adversity, but the paradox of resilience is that our worst times can also become our best.

It is clear that the extensive research on resilient individuals largely points toward the social nature of resilience. However, most resiliency theory has approached the systemic context of resilience tangentially, in terms of the influence of a single, important person, such as a parent or caregiver (Bowlby, 1988). Looking at resilient family functioning through a systemic lens calls upon the clinician to view individual resilience as being embedded in family process and mutual influence (Walsh, 2004). Walsh suggests that if ". . . researchers and clinicians adopt a broader perspective beyond a dyadic bond and early relationships, [they] become aware that resilience is woven in a web of relationships and experiences over the course of the life cycle and across the generations" (p. 12).

It has only been in the last twenty five years or so that families that cope well under stress have been the subject of research (Stinnet & DeFrain, 1985; Stinnett, Knorr, DeFrain, & Rowe, 1981). A growing body of knowledge has pointed toward the multidimensional nature of family processes that distinguish adaptive family systems from maladaptive family systems (Walsh, 2004). Walsh (2004) defines "family resilience" as ". . . the coping and adaptational processes in the family as a functional unit," [and adds that]. . . a systems perspective enables us to understand how family processes mediate stress and enable families to surmount crisis and weather prolonged hardship" (p. 14). Strong families create a climate of optimism, resourcefulness, and nurturance which mirrors the traits of resilient individuals (Walsh, 2004). In fact, research on family adaptation and on family strengths suggests the following traits of resilient families: commitment, cohesion, adaptability, communication, spirituality, effective resource management, and coherence (Abbott, et al., 1990; Antonovsky, 1987; Beavers & Hampson, 1990; Moos & Moos, 1976; Olson, Russell, & Sprenkle, 1989; Reiss, 1981; Stinnett, et al., 1982). Walsh observes, ". . . a family resilience lens fundamentally alters our perspective by enabling us to recognize, affirm, and build upon family resources" (Walsh, 2004, p. viii). Rutter's (1987) research added further confirmation that resilience is fostered in family interactions through a chain of indirect influences that inoculate family members against long-term damage from stressful events. It is essential to consider family resilience as a major variable in a family's ability to cope and adapt in the face of stress (McCubbin, McCubbin, McCubbin, & Futrell, 1995).

Bennett, Wolin, and Reiss (1988) concluded from their research that children who grew up in alcoholic families that deliberately planned and executed family rituals, valued relationships, and preferred roles were less likely to exhibit behavior or emotional problems. They argue that families with serious problems, such as parental alcoholism, which can still impose control over those parts of family life that are central to the family's identity, communicate important messages to their children regarding their ability to take control of present and future life events. These messages can determine the extent to which the children are protected from developing future problems, including alcoholism in adolescence and adulthood.

Patterson (1983) asserts that it is only to the extent that stressors interrupt important family processes that children are impacted. However, from a systemic perspective, it is not only the child who is vulnerable or resilient; most salient is how the family system influences eventual adjustment (Walsh, 2004). Even those family members who are not directly touched by a crisis are profoundly affected by the family response, with reverberations for all other relationships (Bowen, 1978). Following from these ideas, it is clear that "Slings and arrows of misfortune strike us all, in varying ways and times over each family's life course. What distinguishes healthy families is not the absence of problems, but rather their coping and problem-solving abilities" (Walsh, 2004, p. 15).
From an ecological perspective, Rutter (1987) suggests that it is not enough to take into account the sphere of the family as influencing risk and resilience in the individual and family life cycles. He emphasizes that it is also incumbent upon therapists to assess the interplay between families and the political, social, economic, and social climates in which people either thrive or perish. Rutter's findings suggest that it is insufficient to focus exclusively on bolstering at-risk individuals and families, but there must also be public policy efforts to change the odds against them.
In the twenty first century, it is apparent that the configuration of the family is shifting. Diverse forms of family systems do not inherently damage children (Walsh, 2004). Walsh emphasizes, "It is not family form, but rather family processes, that matter most for healthy functioning and resilience" (p. 16).

One family process that governs how a family responds to a new situation is the way in which shared beliefs shape and reinforce communication patterns (Reiss, 1981). Hadley and his colleagues (1974) found that a disruptive transition or crisis could potentiate a major shift in the family belief system, with both immediate and long-term effects on reorganization and adaptation. Additionally, Carter and McGoldrick (1999) suggest that how a family perceives a stressful situation intersects with legacies of previous crises in the multigenerational system to influence the meaning the family makes of the adversity and its response to it.

Walsh (2004) asserts, "A cluster of two or more concurrent stresses complicates adaptation as family members struggle with competing demands, and emotions can easily spill over into conflict. . . . Over time, a pileup of stressors, losses, and dislocations can overwhelm a family's coping efforts, contributing to family strife, substance abuse, and emotional or behavioral symptoms of distress (often expressed by children in the family)" (p. 21). Figley (1989) noted that catastrophic events that occur suddenly and without warning can be particularly traumatic. Bowen (1978) suggested that shock wave effects of a trauma might reverberate through the system and extend forward into multiple generations. Thus, Walsh (2004) calls upon therapists to take a systemic approach to intervention in the face of crisis, with interventions that ". . . strengthen key interactional processes that foster healing, recovery, and resilience, enabling the family and its members to integrate the experience and move on with life" (p. 22).

To understand resilience, one must also look through a developmental lens (Carter & McGoldrick, 1999). Neugarten (1976) found that stressful life events are more apt to cause maladaptive functioning when they are unexpected. Also, multiple stressors create cumulative effects, and chronic severe conditions are more likely to affect functioning adversely. However, Cohler (1987) and Vaillant's (1995) research found that the role of early life experience in determining adult capacity to overcome adversity is less important than was previously believed. Thus, discontinuity and long-term perspectives on the individual and family life cycle point toward the idea that people are constantly "becoming" and have life courses that are flexible and multidetermined (Falicov, 1988). Furthermore, Walsh (2004) suggests that ". . . an adaptation that serves well at one point in development may later not be useful in meeting other challenges" (p. 13). Research has pointed toward a greater risk in vulnerability for boys in childhood and for girls in adolescence (Elder, Caspi, & Nguyen, 1985; Werner & Smith, 1982). All these variables highlight the dynamic nature of resilience over time.

In the field of family therapy, it is incumbent upon researchers and practitioners to recognize that successful treatment depends as much on the resources of the family as on the resources of the individual or the skills of the clinician (Karpel, 1986; Minuchin, 1992). Family processes can influence the aftermath of many traumatic events, reverberating into the course of the lives of people in future generations. Individual resilience must be understood and nurtured in the context of the family and vice-versa. Both immediate crisis and chronic stressors affect the entire family and all its members, posing threats not only to the individual, but also for relational conflict and family breakdown in current and future generations. Family processes may mediate the impact of crisis on all members and their relationships. Protective processes build resilience by promoting recovery and buffering stress. Indeed, healthy family processes influence the effects of present and future crises far into the future (Bowen, 1978; Kerr & Bowen, 1988). Since all families and their members have the potential to become more resilient, family therapists should work to maximize that potential by strengthening key processes within the individual and within the system.

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Saturday, June 26, 2010

Bringing Snow When Mother Nature Doesn't

Are you dreaming of a white Christmas, but the snow stays in your dreams? If you live in a warm climate, or if Mother Nature isn't giving you the snow coverage you need to get into the Christmas spirit, take things into your own hands.

Frost your windows

You can easily give your house arctic appeal by frosting your windows. Spray-on frost can be purchased in easy-to-use aerosol cans. Just spray it on for instant frost.

Snow-covered trees

Artificial trees come in flocked and frosted. The trees appear as though they came straight from the winter woods and into your living room. Or, for a more retro feel, a completely white Christmas tree can give you a winter look and make your ornaments really stand out. A string of lights reflects off the white, "snow-covered" trees to create an ambient glow.

Snowmen

Dispersing decorative snowmen throughout the inside and outside of your home is a simple way to give your home a total winter makeover. Your snowy friends will brighten the mood and whiten your space. As an added bonus, your snowmen won't melt!

Paper snowflakes

Paper snowflakes are a classic Christmas craft that's fun for the whole family. Simple fold a square piece of paper any way you like, cut designs on the edges and unfold to reveal your design. Be careful you don't cut all the fold lines or you will cut apart your paper. (Or, take a new twist on the traditional project: Make your snowflakes out of inexpensive white coffee filters.) Hang your snowflakes anywhere you like -- on the walls, refrigerator or even on your windowpanes. It will be snowing at your house all season long.

Snow powder

Snow powder is an innovative product that turns into very realistic snow. When the absorbent polymer is mixed with water, it grows into snow that has a realistic appearance and feeling. Special affects artists use snow powder in films because of its realistic qualities. Once you mix up a batch, you'll love playing with the cold concoction. If you can pull yourself away, the snow is safe to use on furniture or outdoors, so you can sprinkle your snow as a decorative feature inside or outside.

Ice and icicles

Here's another tip from the movies. You can purchase the same ice and icicles that are used on movie sets. Hang them from a wall indoors or on your porch outdoors. They look so much like real ice that you'll have people wondering why winter only hit your home.

Make it glisten

One of the most beautiful characteristics of snow is its glistening appearance. When the light reflects on snow, it gleams and seems to sparkle. To get a similar affect, use lights in your decorating. A strand of lights adds glimmer to just about any part of your seasonal decorating:


Christmas trees
Wreaths
Garland
Shrubs
Tree trunks

The possibilities are endless, so you can light up any room inside or outside your home. Lights with twinkling capabilities will emulate glistening snow and add movement to your décor. Brighten your home and replicate the mysterious shimmer of fresh-fallen snow with simple strings of lights. Simple touches using a little creativity can give you the white Christmas you're dreaming of, without relying on Mother Nature.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

tree for two

Tree for Two was my student film, completed in 8 months at Emily Carr Instutute of Art and Design in 2006.



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Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Why a Front Child Bike Seat is More Fun Than a Back Seat

A front child bike seat is crucial to have a happy child during cycling. If you have been riding bicycles for a while then you understand the beauty of being able to ride while the wind hits your face. It is an amazing feeling because there is not a moment during your cycling when you feel bored. The same thing can be said about your child as he rides in the back bicycle child carrier. It can get pretty boring for a child if they don't have the awesome view that you have.

Nature at a Glance Can Be Fun

One of the most fun things you can do is ride around the park or through a calm bike trail in the woods. It is always good to look at nature at its best and it is fun to look at the animals that may come by during your ride. Your child has the opportunity to be part of this fun experience if they have a seat in the front of the bike frame. They will be able to feel the wind in their face as you gently pedal the bicycle down the bike trail.

Bonding Family Moments Can Develop

If you find it hard to spend time with your children because of your busy schedule then riding with them will fix this problem. Having your kid in a front child bike seat will make bonding a lot easier since you will be able to directly communicate with him. Riding and enjoying the park and nature is a way of establishing a family bond between you and your child.

Safety Precautions For A Bicycle Carrier

Safety is something that should not be taken lightly, especially while your child rides in the front. The truth of the matter is that you will have more control over the safety of your child because they will be at a short distance from you. If your child were to be choking and they were in the back you would probably have no way of knowing. However, since they now sit in the front child bike seat you can now be more aware of what they are doing. If anything was to happen and they were to be choking on a snack then you would know right away.

As you can see, riding in the front is more fun for your child and it is also a better way to keep them safe during a bicycle ride.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Best Family - Friendly Activities in Austin

It's easy to get stressed from the busy weeks that are filled with work, activities and commitments. To get away from the hustle and bustle, plan a fun weekend to relax with your family. One of the greatest parts about the city of Austin, Texas, is that it's filled with activities for children and adults alike - and, you can find family entertainment during all seasons of the year. Next time you're struggling for a weekend plan, check out some of these great options:

Rent a Kayak

Explore the beautiful scenery surrounding Town Lake by renting a kayak for the afternoon. There are several rental spots around the lake that rent canoes, and single and double kayaks that are great for an adult and child.

Cost: $10-$15/kayak per hour

Austin Children's Museum

The Austin Children's Museum features 12,500 square feet of space for children and adults to learn and explore. There are several permanent exhibits like a construction and engineering play place, and an area focused on creative problem solving. Other exhibits are seasonal and rotate 2-3 times each year.

Cost: $6.50/adult, $4.50/children 12-23 months, Free for children under 12 months

Austin Zoo

The Austin Zoo is located just outside of Austin in the Hill Country and is home to more than 300 animals in 100 species. Your family can stroll through the zoo to discover its many animals ranging from big cats and monkeys to exotic birds. Throughout the year, the Austin Zoo holds special events for families. For an up-to-date list of the events, visit their website.

Cost: $8/adult, $5/children aged 2-12

Dinosaur Park

Just southeast of Austin, this outdoor museum is designed to teach visitors all about dinosaurs with realistic, life-size replicas. As you walk through the museum's nature trail, you'll find dinosaurs that range from 6- to 40-feet long. The park also has a fossil-dig area, picnic area, and playground for the family to enjoy.

Cost: $6/person, Free for children 2 and under

Austin's Park

For an exciting treat, check out Austin's Park. The indoor/outdoor park spans 22 acres and has games and attractions to keep you busy throughout the day. From adventurous activities like rock climbing and go-karts to lower-key attractions like a teacup ride and video arcade, there's something for every member of your family. The admission price also covers an all-you-can-eat buffet and fountain drinks.

Cost: $22.95/All-day unlimited food and rides

Blazer Tag

Spend an afternoon in Texas' largest laser tag arena that features three stories of game play. You can make reservations to play or just stop by - games start every 20 minutes. While there, you can also enjoy a high-tech video arcade and snack bar.

Cost: $7.90/person per game (discount on additional games)

Zilker Park

Zilker Park is a great spot for many family activities. It's one of the most popular parks in Austin and has a hike/bike trail, outdoor playground, Barton Springs Pool, and even train rides. Enjoy an outdoor picnic, then explore all the exciting things Zilker has to offer.

Cost: Free, additional cost for pool and train rides

Peter Pan Mini Golf

Try your hand at a game of golf at Peter Pan Mini Golf, located on Barton Springs Road. Each hole has an obstacle or character to navigate around, making it a fun, yet challenging experience for both children and adults. When bringing a family, it's best to play during the day - the course becomes busier with adults into the evening hours.

Cost: $5/person, $2/each additional round

Monday, June 21, 2010

Decorate with Nature

Less is more, keep it simple. Let nature be your muse when decorating your home. Home décor inspired by nature is practical, easy, and elegant. It adds freshness to your living environment in a design that is not only decorative but spiritual. Think of the feeling you get when you watch the first spring trees blossom, smell the fresh cut grass in the summer or the moist air after a rainfall. Do you enjoy walking through crunchy leaves in the fall with crisp air flowing all around you? Perhaps you're best contented with sitting by the fire sipping hot chocolate watching a peaceful snow falling silently through the window. Decorating with nature, is taking these feelings, memories, and moments we share with the seasonal changes and putting them into our home.

Take nature walks when the weather is nice. Gather pine combs, acorns, interesting branches or rocks. These can be displayed on a mantel, shelf, or table. A nice wooden bowl filled with green apples, bright oranges, lemons, ornamental squashes or mini pumpkins can be lovely. You can also fill it with dried flower petals, or nuts in their shells for added richness.

Always keep a few houseplants. Many varieties are easy to care for and rewarding to nurture. Become acquainted with your local plant nursery or garden shop and have an associate recommend plants taking your lighting, climate, and lifestyle needs into consideration. If you have pets or small children in the home make sure plants are kept out of reach and are safe.

Grow herbs inside your home. Many culinary herbs grow well in pots in south or west facing windows. Try growing English lavender or lemon verbena in your bedroom. Not only will they provide a lovely scent, you can snip the ends of these herbs and add them to your bathwater for a luxurious retreat.

Consider growing an outdoor garden. There are many kinds to work with. You could have a garden that attracts butterflies and birds, or you might prefer an edible garden. Even a small flower bed can be rewarding to your home. Consider growing flowers that are recommended as cutting flowers and you can bring them inside and enjoy fresh bouquets all season.

During the spring, when flowering trees are at their best, cut a small branch and bring it into your home. Display in a glass pitcher or large vase filled with water. It won't last long, but will scent your home wonderfully. This is perfect as a centerpiece when you are entertaining friends and family for a day. Large clear glass containers can be filled part way with water. You can sprinkle flower petals and float some votive candles for an attractive centerpiece in lieu of flowers bouquets.

Consider adding natural fabrics within your home. Egyptian cotton sheets will look and feel refreshing on your bed. Angora or mohair pillows or shams can dress up a bed or a sofa. Linen tablecloths or placements can transform your dinning table. Enjoy silk valences on your windows. The possibilities are endless. Remember bathrooms decorated with fake looking sea shell soaps? Take a contemporary spin on this old idea. Display seashells, bleached sand dollars, or sea glass you collected on a walk by the beach or during a vacation. They will remind you of a happy time when you see them in your bathroom--yet they will look classy.

Pamper yourself with good soap in the bathroom. Try to buy homemade soaps that smell rich with scents of nature, and look equally appealing. Many natural food stores or farmers markets carry such soaps. If you enjoy crafts, consider making your own soap. Good soaps always make good gift ideas. Make sure you leave some in your guest bath, so they will feel indulged during their visit.

Collect interesting stones or pieces of wood during your family vacations or travels. Display them creatively in your home. They will enhance your décor and you will have good stories to tell about each. Colors that showcase nature are also the trend when it comes to decorating. Popular reds the color of watermelons or Chinese red inspire confidence, even a good dose of eccentricity. Don't be afraid to have at least one room that is bold. Red is the color of blood and fire. It represents energy, vitality, and passion. Orange is another popular color. Shades that resemble apricots, pumpkins, or butternut squash work well. Orange demands attention, yet does so in a way that emphasizes warmth, balance, and excitement. Another popular pairing is that of regal chocolate brown (the "new" black) with a sky or bird's egg blue. This is especially elegant for bedrooms, studies, or bathrooms.

Finally, your home décor should say something about your personality and interests. Its also a place to showcase ethnicity, cultural background, or family heritage. Books and other reading material tell a lot about a person. Display them like a badge. Consider keeping a few books or nice looking magazines (such as gardening magazines) on your coffee table for a decorative touch. All of these can be intermingled with nature as a basis for decorating style. Your home does not need to be overmatched. Current trends are giving way to more creative diversity--a melting pot of styles coming together. Start adding nature to your home today.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

4 Basic Steps to Raise Green Kids

Kids are fun. They get excited about many of the things you can teach them as a parent, especially when they're little. Take the time to get them started on some early green steps to help them learn to respect the environment.

1. Teach them about the environment.

Kids can't learn to love the environment if they're always sheltered from it. Go on family nature walks, garden, go camping and just generally have fun in nature as a family. Teach them how much fun there is to be had without computers, constant texting and watching television.

2. Teach them to clean up litter.

When you're out and about, don't forget a bag to clean up any litter you come across. You can bring gloves if you're going to get serious about your cleanup efforts so that you don't get too dirty.

But even casually picking up a single piece of litter you come across is a good example. Talk about the damage litter does to the natural environment and make sure your kids don't casually drop trash themselves. If they do, make sure they clean it up and remind them of why you don't litter.

3. Teach simplicity.

Don't buy the latest, greatest, hottest toys and clothes out there. Teach your kids to value being themselves over being trendy. Teach them that replacing perfectly good toys or electronic gadgets really isn't necessary.

It's a hard lesson, especially when so much around them teaches consumerism, but this is one of the most important green lessons you can give a child. It has the chance to reduce their consumption for life.

Don't forget to show them the wonderful things that can be bought from resale and thrift shops. They might be delighted with how much more you can afford when they get something from such stores.

4. Teach them to reduce, reuse, recycle.

In order, of course. Understanding why "reduce, reuse, recycle" is in the order it's in matters.

Reduce I've already covered in some ways with teaching simplicity. If you keep things simple, you consume less.

Reuse can be a lot of fun for kids. Just think of all the crafts they can make with reused items.

Recycling is a skill that can be taught pretty young, especially if your area has a good recycling program. Kids can learn that paper, glass and metal go in the recycle bin very early, and to ask for other discarded items.

The best you can do won't guarantee that your children will live by your values their entire lives, but the younger you start the more likely they are to try.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Jim Fallon: Journey to the killer apperception

psychopathic killer www.ted.com are the basis for some must-watch TV, but what really makes them tick? Neuroscientist Jim Fallon talks about brain scans and genetic analysis, can detect the bad electrical in nature (and Maintain) murderers. In the too-weird-for-fiction twist, that shares a fascinating family history that his work makes a chilling personal.TEDTalks is a daily video podcast of the best interviews and performances from the TED conference, where the world's leading thinkers andOfficials give their lives to talk about 18 minutes. Featured Speakers like Al Gore on climate change, the Philippe Starck design, Jill Bolte Taylor to their own beat, Nicholas Negroponte of One Laptop per Child Monitor, Jane Goodall on chimpanzees, Bill Gates and the malaria mosquitoes, Pattie Maes on the " sixth sense "Wearable Tech, and the" Lost "producer JJ Abrams mystery of magic. TED stands for Technology, Entertainment, Design, TEDTalks, and cover such topics asScience, business, development and art. Subtitling and translation of subtitles in different languages are now available on TED.com, http Watch trailers for the Top 10 TEDTalks www.ted.com



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Friday, June 18, 2010

Cuba Nature Attractions - Topes De Collantes

Topes de Collantes Grand Park, stretching for 200 square kilometers and 800 meters over the sea level, is a real paradise in the very center of Cuba, just 22 kilometers from Trinidad City. The thriving nature has created a healthy environment polished from the pollution of contemporary life, stress and anxiety.

With a very humid climate and moderate temperatures the whole year, the conditions of the place have the perfect ecological features for promoting a richness of flora and fauna, with a high level of endemic species. Numerous grottos bored through its almost vertical faults, open valleys with underground drains, narrow rivers of fast waters, beautiful waterfalls and water jumps such as the Salto del Caburní (National Monument), praise the attractions of this region.

Nature lovers will find here around 15 different kinds of pines, 12 types of eucalyptus, and more than 100 ornamental plants guaranteeing the existence of flowers throughout the year in Topes de Collantes. Additionally, there is a variety of ferns, medicinal plants, wild orchids and butterflies. Among the notable large trees, there are hundred-year-old carob, cedar, mahogany, and teak trees. Terrestrial fauna is abundant, but the prevailing animals are the white-tail deer, the wild pig, and the quails.

For all these reasons, Topes de Collantes is the ideal place for natural tourism programs whose offers range from 10 to 25 Km of distance to be covered. Birdwatching of more than 45 % of the endemic species registered in the country, cavalcades (from 1 to 4 days) making striking tours through the mountain, camps in comfortable tents, mountain biking through pathways and tracks, and canoeing along the waterfalls and ravines all make for great ways to explore the bounty of this area.

To complement the natural attractions, Topes de Collantes has a decent infrastructure including numerous specialty restaurants, Los Helechos (The Ferns) Hotel, and the Villa Caburní Hotel. There is also the Kurhoteles Escambray, for health tourism, which sums up the cultural attraction of having a fabulous Cuban Art Collection with more than 800 pieces of 169 artists. Nelson Domínguez, Alicia Leal, Pedro Pablo Oliva, Ernesto García Peña, Flora Fong, Adigio Benítez, Ever Fonseca, Raúl Santos Zerpa, Rubén Torres Llorca, Tomás Sánchez, Arturo Cuenca, Moisés Finalé, Zaida del Río, Eduardo Roca, Manuel Mendive, and Antonio Vidal are among the most famous.

These pieces were all painted by the artists in that place in the 1980s, when the Cuban plastic art was undergoing its first boom. A few years ago, the pieces were restored and organized to create a Museum of Contemporary Art and new artists joined the project with paintings and sculptures composing now the so famous "Colección de Topes" (Topes' Collection).

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Jellystone Park - ideal for family camping in Maryland

Every parent is given a trip for the family can not miss it, it is important that occupied some funny things in their plan for the entertainment of children. Children are usually very restless by nature, and as soon as camp is set, the excitement of the outdoor evening can start all wear parts. However, there is a place in Maryland, where the whole family, young and old can have their lives at the time. This website, popularized by Yogi Bear and Friendsis able to bear children zi adults of all ages. We look forward to talking Jellystone Park! This is a very well-planned park, and taking into account the needs and comfort families of all sizes.

There is still the same to be found a family, the Park family went camping at Jellystone in Maryland and returned. Even the most uninvolved family member gets park deep in a lot of action in Jellystone. Such measures range fromhayrides, hiking, swimming, fishing, tennis, mini golf and much more. Your kids will jump for joy when the frequent visits of Yogi Bear and his friends experienced in tow.

for family camping in Maryland a couple of places to park your Jellystone Park Camp. Campground has 222 campsites, primitive, 4 of which are pro. This will be for families with children, a trip to the camp really enjoy the natural habitat. In addition to 222 campsites, mostYou can also make a reservation for 21 luxury rooms, 12 comfortable cabins, and 41 regular cab type. There is plenty of room for many families with the same period in Jellystone Park

My child is already started on it, the more! Wait, we are beginning to show fun, lots of other things you can do the one in Maryland in this exciting Family Camping Park! Families enjoy a carriage ride through the park during the day when to pedal. Film fans amongYou can also catch the action on the big screen, complimentary newspaper and water enthusiasts will soon be witness to something that can not all be defeated in the world. There is a new pool almost to completion stage and has a total length of 2,400 feet shots! If swimming is like water, you can get, then you have a number there. There are heated pools and Kiddy pools are enjoyed! Employees in Jellystone is a very friendly natureand often with innovative activities to help families, a better bond.

It should Maryland be noted that the family Jellystone Park Camping is not only to all in fun. It is a very good care of their basic daily needs. 24-hour laundry, business center and close to several times the number of dump stations and always-on wireless Internet access is a small device that will make your stay very Jellystonecomfortably and without regret. Family camping experience with Maryland can honor his memory for a lifetime!

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

ECHOING WALL ~ Kitaro and Randy Miller

Kitaro and Randy Miller's "Echoing Wall" from the movie soundtrack "The Soong Sisters." The Soong Sisters (Chinese: 宋家皇朝) is a 1997 Hong Kong film dramatization of the lives of the Soong sisters from 1911 to 1949. The sisters married the most important historical figures during the founding of new China, making the family the focal point of every important major decision made in modern Chinese history. The movie was written by Alex Law and directed by Mabel Cheung. It starred Maggie Cheung, Michelle Yeoh and Vivian Wu as the sisters. See 3 minute "Soong Sisters (1997) Trailer" here: www.youtube.com For more about "The Soong Sisters," see: en.wikipedia.org See also: www.wesleyancollege.edu Another movie to see is "The Joy Luck Club, " see the 3 minute and 49 second movie trailer here: www.youtube.com Featured: Black snub-nosed monkey. The black snub-nosed monkeys are mammal and are listed in Category I of China's Wildlife Protection Act. They are one of the most endangered animals in Appendix 1 of the Convention on International Trade in Endangered Species of Wild Fauna and Flora (CITES). They are also on the Red List of the International Union for Conservation of Nature and Natural Resources (IUCN). China is the only country where black snub-nosed monkey can be found. The population of the black snub-nosed monkeys has grown from 1000 in 2000 to around 1500 at present, nearly 70 percent of the world's total, in the Baima Snow Mountain State Nature Reserve, because of ...



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Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Grand Bahamas Island - Nature At Its Best

Life is all about living it the way it comes. We humans tend to live life the way it wants to be lived. Getting up in the morning, going to office, dropping children to school, and all the other daily routine work, life seems to be the same old thing. I, myself, at times wonder how I manage to do the same old things everyday and then wait for the next day to do the same old thing. However, the fact remains that however boring our lives get, we can always do things to make it interesting and full of fun and excitement. These deviations come in various forms, but the most common thing is taking a vacation and going to some holiday spot to enjoy life and getting yourself refreshed. Well this in fact, is a very good way of being rejuvenated and especially if the place for the vacation is the Grand Bahamas Island. In fact, what I feel is that the Grand Bahamas Island is one of the best places to visit for a vacation with family and friends.

Now let us talk a bit about the Grand Bahamas Island. The entire island is a conglomeration of seven hundred small and beautiful islands. Going to the Grand Bahamas Island is the best thing that you can indulge in because the Grand Bahamas Island gives all the visitors the chance to make their stay a memorable one. The Grand Bahamas Island gives all the visitors more than enough opportunities to indulge in and enjoy the adventures of the various activities there. In fact, the Grand Bahamas Island also gives a lift to the sportsman spirit in you helping you to pamper yourself with your favorite outdoor sports.

The Grand Bahamas Island helps to mesmerize tourists with the grand scenic beauty of the island. In fact, once somebody visits the Grand Bahamas Island, he is bound to come back over and over again as the Grand Bahamas Island is one place that just cannot be avoided by anyone. Nassau, the capital of the Grand Bahamas Island, is one of the most beautiful places to visit. In fact, the location offers some of the most enticing natural beauties that are highly attention grabbing. It is the best place to take your family and friends for a vacation. They will simply love it. It helps you to stay away from the daily hassles of life and from the hustle and bustle of the streets. It is all calm and quiet out there with nature in its best form.

Once you decide to go to the Grand Bahamas Island for a vacation, you can easily look out for a travel agent who can help you in arranging your trip. This includes getting the tickets, hotel room reservation and even touring the entire island. It is not a hassle to locate these travel agents. They can be easily located through the internet. In fact, some of the travel agents also offer holiday packages which are quite economical. So all you will need to do is look out for the best travel agent and then go ahead with your family or friends to enjoy nature in its best form.

Monday, June 14, 2010

For Help Getting Pregnant, Mother Nature Has Many Answers

When it comes to getting pregnant, sometimes help is needed and it is not always chemical medicine that is needed. Sometimes Mother Nature has answers that the chemicals do not and these are less risky than using chemical medication. When you need help getting pregnant, you may want to look into these alternative medical treatments. While many may scoff at this the fact of the matter is that alternative medicine does work and many people use this to get pregnant when conventional medicine has already been tried and failed to make a difference.

So what can you do and how can Mother Nature help with the issue at hand? There are several natural ways to help getting pregnant that you may not think about. Believe it or not, there are exercise programs such as Tai Chi or Pilates that can improve the chances of conceiving a baby. These work by reducing stress and promoting good health, both which are very important when you are trying to get pregnant. These are gentle exercises that will help you to build your body as well as your energy levels which are important when trying to get pregnant and conceive a child.

Eastern and Ayurvedic medicine are also good ways to help you in the fact of getting pregnant. They treat both the mind and body connection using treatments such as acupuncture and acupressure to treat infertility issues or to help rebuild the energy and function of the body in order to conceive. There are many ways to help yourself get pregnant and by combining different types of medicine such as different Eastern medical practices, you have a much better chance to get help getting pregnant. These medical practices do work and many couples have conceived children with the help of this medicine.

Using herbs to help you to get help getting pregnant are also quite common. There are many different fertility herbs that can be used to help in the conception of a child. Any herb should be used under the auspices of a naturopath or a homeopathic doctor as some can cause damage if not taken correctly. Each of these herbs will help a specific issue when it comes to conception and issues relating to conception. A naturopathic doctor will be better able to help you with the herbs that would be right for you and your situation.

Aromatherapy provides another useful tool for those seeking help getting pregnant. Odors and smells can also help greatly in the process of getting pregnant. It can also regulate cycles and relieve anxiety and stress which goes a long way to helping conception. You cannot even begin to address all the ways that nature can provide assistance with conception and pregnancy. So if you have used conventional medicines and they have not worked, or if you prefer going the natural medicine route, you should think about trying some of these alternative medical options to treat infertility problems.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

New Bangladesh 2010 বাংলাদেশ; Amader Shonar Bangla * Full-HD 1080p

Parental Rating: Family - Friendly :-) Audio Language: Bangla \ Bengali বাংলাদেশ Bangladeshi Photographs Taken by - Shonar Chelay Creative Image Directions by - Shonar Chelay Bangla music performed by - Salma Content Quality: Full-HD 1080p



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Saturday, June 12, 2010

Best Of Talat Mahmood - Jalte Hain Jiske Liye - Sujata [1959]

"Sujata" is a 1959 Hindi language Bimal Roy film. The film starred Sunil Dutt and Nutan supported by Lalita Pawar and Shashikala The film explored the situation of caste in India. Themusic is by SD Burman and the lyrics by Majrooh Sultanpuri. It was entered into the 1960 Cannes Film Festival. Filmfare Awards; * Filmfare Best Actress Award - Nutan * Filmfare Best Director Award - Bimal Roy * Filmfare Best Movie Award - Bimal Roy * Filmfare Best Story Award - Subodh Ghosh Talat Mahmood (February 24, 1924 -- May 9, 1998) was a popular Indian playback singer and film actor. A recipient of Padma Bhushan he is famous for his ghazals, resulting in a title of "king of ghazals" bestowed upon him by fans and critics. Talat saab as he is now referred to, has often been described as a singer with a silky voice. His voice never suited loud songs, songs that demanded a high-pitched voice. Shouting or screaming didn't suit him and so he avoided those kinds of songs too. He only sang soft, romantic, lyrical, ghazals.Talat saab went for his vocal training under PT.SC R.BHATT in Bhatkhande music college lucknow.... Talat Mahmood was born in Lucknow, India, to Manzoor Mahmood. Talat showed his musical leanings from a very young age and would enjoy sitting through all-night music soiree's listening patiently to some of the biggest names in classical Indian music then. Belonging from a conservative Muslim background, singing was not encouraged. Talat had to choose between working in films and ...



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Friday, June 11, 2010

Flower Bulbs - Nature's Greatest Gift

Flowers are one of nature's greatest gifts. Their scent, their colors, their shapes... everything about flowers is beautiful. A colorful, cheerful flower can brighten even the darkest day. Even more enjoyable than looking at flowers, though, is growing them. Flowers can be bought from pots and replanted. They can also be grown from clippings. However, one of the most popular ways of growing flowers is from bulbs and seeds.

Growing flowers outdoors from bulbs is simple; in fact, it is so easy that it's almost foolproof. One of the most important aspects is timing. Bulbs need to be planted about six weeks before the first frost. Bulbs must be planted in an area with good drainage and a lot of sun. Make sure the soil is loose, and then plant the bulbs about six inches in the ground. (Package directions may vary depending on type and location; when directions differ, following your package.) Try to place the bulb in the hole with the pointed end facing up. Cover the hole and water. Voila! You've planted your flower bulbs.

Flower bulbs and seeds make flower gardens accessible for everyone. They can be grown virtually anywhere. One idea is to plant them in containers. With container gardens, even apartment dwellers can enjoy the beauty of flowers. Container-grown flower bulbs and seeds also allow growers to defy nature. Flower bulbs can be planted indoors in any season and in any climate, as long as the indoor conditions are favorable for growth.

Flower bulbs are available in many varieties, such as tulips, daffodils, gladiolus, and crocus.

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Getting the Feel of Nature - Use Pebble Tile

What else can you ask aside from having a posh house? A house that is located in the good and safe place. A good place to weave your dreams and raise your family, watch your kids grow too. Some people would like their homes stand out too in the middle of the crowd. We wanted our homes to be unique amongst anybody else. Hence, we redecorate it.

Here is an article that will show you why you should consider using pebble tile in making your homes different amongst the rest.

1. Get the feel of nature. Having a pebble tiled homes make you feel that you are so close to nature, say a river or shores where you can see plenty of stones. It will give you a warm feeling especially when you are tired after a busy day. It will make you feel good all the time as well.

2. The feeling of calmness is another thing to consider. Looking at those pebbles as your walls or floors will give you a natural warmth and comfort not any other material can give. You will definitely rejuvenated by the thoughts that have those materials inside your homes, most especially to those who love outdoors.

3. Its uniqueness always defines you among others. It will give you natural feeling of being different from you neighbour aside from it aesthetical value. If you will have a chance to see your friends house you will see that not everyone will venture on using stones or pebble tiles as part of their homes. This is a good indication that you have your homes decorated uniquely.

There are always different options on how you can redecorate your homes and make it better. We all wanted a home sweet home where you can make yourself more comfortable after a long day. Define yours and make a difference while enjoying the luxury of it.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

American Dragon Jake Long - Season 1 Episode 5 - Act 4, Scene 15 (part 2 of 3)

Click Here . Then Hit Confirm ! : www.youtube.com Please Rate 5/5 , Comment , Favorite and Subscribe for more American Dragon Jake Long videos American Dragon Jake Long - Season 1 Episode 5 - Act 4, Scene 15 (part 2 of 3) PART 1 www.youtube.com PART 3 www.youtube.com PLEASE CHECK OUT THE PLAY LIST @ www.youtube.com Set in Manhattan, this animated series tells the story of 14-year-old who must balance ordinary adolescent transformation with a very cool secret...he is a descendant of dragons, the Chinese culture's ultimate representation of excellence and the forces of Mother Nature. When he eventually unlocks his full potential and turns into the American Dragon, he will overcome obstacles to protect the magical creatures living in the city, but as his ordinary self, Jake Long can't conquer his crush on pretty blond schoolmate Rose who, unbeknownst to Jake, has an amazing secret of her own... she's a dragon slayer!. Jake navigates the city with fellow skateboarders Trixie and Spud, and when he gets home, it's to an extended family: a businessman dad originally from the Midwest who doesn't know he's married into a family of dragons, Jake's Chinese mom, his grandfather (who recently immigrated to train his grandson in the ways of the ancient dragon), younger sister Haley (a nascent dragon) and Grandpa's gruff sidekick, a magical Shar-Pei named Fu Dog. also check out other Episodes like .Old School Training. .Shapeshifter. .Dragon Breath. .Adventures In Troll-Sitting / Fu Dog ...



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Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Muslims accept been Deceived

Jesus Christ is Lord Islam is False - First, you can be sure that God loves you unconditionally and desires to have a personal relationship with you. For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. (John 3:16). Second, you need to admit your sinful nature to God, because this is what separates all of us from Him. For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. (Romans 3:23). Third, you should stop trying to please God through your own efforts, and realize that salvation through the blood of Jesus Christ is a gift that none of us deserves. But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (Romans 5:8). Finally, you just need to step in and truly accept Gods gift -- His Son, Jesus Christ. But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name (John 1:12). So, now you know the basic steps to become a Christian. As a result, if you desire Gods gift of eternal life and fellowship with Him, you are as close as a sincere act of faith. Jesus says, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. (John 14:6). Jesus also says, Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me. (Revelation 3:20). Receiving Jesus is a matter of truly asking Him to come ...



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Friday, June 4, 2010

How to Choose Family Room Paint Colors

Family room paint colors allow you to make the rest of your room look updated even if it has been a while since you've replaced the furniture. It allows you to turn a plain white box into a home. Plus, this is one of the main living spaces of your home so you need to ensure that it works for every member of your family.

Consider a modern design. This will dictate your color palette but will also influence how the room works. This design style keeps accessories to a minimum and focuses on clean lines. This is the perfect style if you are short on space. It also makes your room feel decorated without being plain. An uncluttered look is essential for any space where there will be a lot of toys or where your kids need to study. For this kind of design style choose an ultra bright white, taupe or gray paint colors. You can also have the kids paint their own modern art and let them use whatever colors they want. This creates a gallery effect but also assures that everyone gets their favorite colors in the space.

Your family might be feuding over wall colors. One faction might want lavender or a feminine color and the other one wants a masculine red. You'll need to decide on a theme that you can all live with. Most people can really relate to nature. Pull in sunny yellow accent pieces or soft green paint colors for a room that everyone in the family can love. You can even base the room around a rock fireplace or rich wood floors. Bring in a lot of family photos for more color and a sentimental touch. You could even have a new portrait taken where you are all wearing the colors of your room.

Make a pattern with paint. You'll probably just want to keep this on just one wall. This allows you to make sense out of multiple paint colors. This could be as easy as painting an accent wall or mimicking wallpaper. You can even carefully tape off stripes. Vary the widths and the colors so it almost looks like fabric. This allows everyone in the family to get their favorite colors on the walls.

Family room paint colors should be inviting without being loud. You can create a welcoming space where your whole family will want to spend time together. Sometimes less is more but whether you go with a bright white paint or a rich red; remember it's about your family.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Family and Adult Camping Activities

When families go camping together, often it is more than simply pitching the tent and toasting fluffy marshmallows over an open fire. It might be a chance to learn new hobbies together or venture out into nature for the first time to experience its raw beauty.

They also may go camping to get a chance to see and talk with someone new for the adults as well as the children. Fellow parents, single and married will have the campground experience as an easy topic to start a conversation and strike up a friendship.

By going to the pool or lake, hiking, gathering wood, or hunting and fishing, families have a lot of activities to enjoy together. There are many campgrounds, that have a wide variety of things to do for every member of your family.

It is a good idea to check out what activities the campground offers, before you make your final reservation, to make sure they are what you and your family really want to do on your vacation.

For instance, state park campgrounds may have horseback riding, hiking, rafting and miniature golf.
By simply visiting different web sites, you can get a pretty good idea of what activities are available.
With all the choices that you will encounter, this preparation will help you narrow down your choices.

A lot of campgrounds now have activities for children that include movies, dances, arts and crafts, and even ice cream socials. It is a great way for children, preteens and young adults to meet others their own age.

While the children are busy, adults will also have a chance to meet other parents by attending community cookouts and happy hours.

You can enjoy the outdoors in many ways, and will find fairly quickly a campground that offers just what you are looking for.

If you learn how to plan and do a simple schedule of different activities, it can give every person in your family the chance to suggest what the whole family might like to do. With multiple activities planned for each day, the whole family can find more time to enjoy in their camping experience together.

That is something to write grandma, grandpa and friends back home about, and share the experience with them as well!

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Birthday Spacepainting achievement (Part 5 of 10)

This performance was dedicated to my family and friends. Be sure to watch all 10 parts of this video to see all the paintings I made that day. Happy 6th Birthday Ian! View more paintings and videos by Brandon McConnell at www.spacepaintings.com



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Tuesday, June 1, 2010

What are Some Great Family Vacation Ideas - 5 Exciting and Adventurous Family Vacations

Has planning another family vacation become the same old, boring, no thrills, dull routine? Are you trying to come up with new ideas to make a family vacation more exciting, memorable, and just a bit different from the more popular family activities?
Here are a few of the not so common family vacation ideas that are full of excitement, thrills, adventure, and adrenaline pumping.

Caving - There are some great national parks and state parks that have an extensive network of caves. The National Park Service lists 81 national parks containing caves in its National Park System. Some caves will have stalagmites and stalactites that have been formed by thousands of years of water dripping. Prehistoric peoples dwelled in some of these caves leaving petroglyphs, the earliest known form of rock paintings.

Spelunking - Very similar to caving, but for the more adventurous. Spelunking involves a more intense exploration of caves by rappelling into the dark recesses of the Earth, and what is known as, black water rafting. Some caves have underground rivers. At times spelunkers need to navigate the cave system on a raft in total darkness with just the lights on their helmets.

White water rafting - Guided and self-guided white water river rafting tours are available on waters for beginners to the extreme white water veteran. Kayaking and canoeing are less intense and are great ideas for families with younger children.

Snorkeling and scuba diving - Snorkel or dive with dolphins, manta rays, or even sharks. Vacation in a tropical port and explore the coral reefs that are full of unusual and colorful marine life. Search for oysters and pearls or treasure from a sunken Spanish galleon from years gone by.

Archaeology excavation dig - Excavation dig vacations can be found all over the world. Archaeology sites can be in caves, in a desert, or even in a jungle. Participants in the digs help researchers uncover artifacts that have not been touched for thousands of years. The fees paid by the vacationers go towards the funding of research, preservation of the artifacts, and publishing papers. Be the first to unearth an important artifact, help in the preservation, and learn a bit of history.

Family vacations do not have to be boring. These great family vacation ideas will provide your family with plenty of excitement and adventure and educational experiences that will be remembered for a long time.